It’ll all happen. Don’t worry.

It’s all just a matter of time. But you’ll make it. Don’t worry.

Sometimes it’s all messed up in our heads, when we’re waiting for something to happen. You’ll feel as if everything’s not gonna occur according to your plan, or things are gonna take a different turn or maybe you’ll be lost after a point of time. Cold feet. Cold hands. Pale cheeks. Hahaaaah.

Nervouseness is a beautiful phenomenon according to me. It’s the mixture of uncertainty and anxiousness which can vary from person to person that makes me believe in it so much that trust me, it’s okay to feel so, else there is no fun about doing what you have always dreamt of.

Until it gives you goosebumps and does not excite every nerve inside of you, you aren’t doing it right.

Your gut would almost want to explode, when it’s happening but once the storm is over, there’s gonna be a beautiful rainbow across the sky.

It can range from making a great creative piece of art, to singing a great song, from recording a vlog, to writing an article , from asking someone out on a date to maybe pushing yourself up to wake up and hit the gym . I mean it’s all possible. And you can make it possible!

I would say, it’s healthy, to challenge yourself, everyday. You tend to explore a different version of yourself, and sometimes you even if you don’t yield a great result, you learn something new in the process.

It’s the journey, that’ll always be with you. Not the ends and definitely not the beginnings.

I could help you follow a few ways to keep yourself in the track, whenever you feel that things are not going right, or maybe it’s all falling apart and life’s a mess :

1. Be ready to fail : You should know that you will fail. If you don’t fail, you wouldn’t the joy of winning it all over again. Failure can make you stronger.
2. Be with your plan : No matter what comes your way, you should know, that losing focus wouldn’t really be helpful to reach your goal. Hence, always stick to your agenda. It might not be exactly how you plan it to be but at least, you’ll have something chalked out, more likely to fall back upon.
3. Be proud of yourself : Even though there are gonna be times, when you’ll be demotivated or brought down by different factors such as rough days or maybe low capital, you have to stay strong and be proud that you’ve taken it up, upon yourself, to achieve something and also make yourself better.
4. Laugh at your flaws and own them : Someone had once told me that he always laughs at his mistakes, so that next time he knows what he’s doing and deliberately avoids them. It’s like watching yourself as if you were a small baby, making mistakes, and then you just teach the baby to not do the same again.
5. Don’t compare yourself to others : Remember, that every single human being is running their own race. So, if they are ever in your life, they’re either family or an essential person or maybe an acquaintance. Comparing your life to their’s would be a fool’s thing to do, cz it ain’t gonna do any good but bring you down. Everybody is different. You are different.
6. Self-dates : Going on a date with yourself, is one of the most empowering activities I’ve ever known. You get to eat what you want, you get to spend as much as you want, shop like a maniac, just for yourself and also, most importantly, get immense time for introspection. You get to delve into a pleasurable version of yourself and also make you happy with what you are.
7. Don’t share your plans with everyone : Not everybody has the power to listen or rather fathom the sparkle that you have within, so, not everybody deserves to know your masterplan. That’s supposed to be within you, and you’re supposed to believe in it.

That was a long talk, but yes, don’t worry. It’s all a process, so you got to believe in it. It’ll eventually work out. Just don’t forget to work hard.